In India, people’s mentality is to badge aunties for women and uncles for men when they get married. It is better to build your career then get married. You need to wait until you reach your 30s to take a call on marriage for many reasons.
10 reasons why you should never get married before Age 30:
You are more capable financially:
After all those years of unpredictable expenses, you have finally learned to save money and handle the other financial matter. You have made savings which will help you lead the life after marriage.
You have experienced a lot:
You have experienced and learned to stand up for yourself. You are no longer the person who tries to make everyone happy. You can lead the rest of your life with the family with the experience you gained all these years.
Long-age gaps are not so romantic:
The age-gap mark should be 3 years to be a couple, if your husband is older than 3 years, it will be hard for you to make him understand your point. Take for example, if you are 25 and marrying a 30, he is more absurd to understand your desires and ambitions.
You can’t bear any expenses
When you complete your graduation and settled in a job, you may still be in a lower position. Your salary will be enough just for you and it will be difficult to manage your family. In most of the situation, salaries will be hiked after 4 to 5 years of work experience. By the time you reach Age 30, you may earn more than enough for you you can maintain your family.
You will have better communication skills:
All these years you have given time and energy to set your communication skills by reading, working, interacting with people. You have developed through your experiences so while having a conversation with that special person, you can never run out of topics.
You don’t want a failed marriage:
When you know you have married a wrong person in the hurry to ‘settle down’ before 30 just because your other friends were doing the same, you are signing up for unhappiness. You have realized that you have married a person with whom your thoughts and ideologies don’t match.
You have lived alone:
Nothing can be compared to living alone. When a person lives by his side, he learns a lot of things about himself that stays with him. So, you will have no regrets at heart and start a marital life happily.
You will have enough time to recover from your heartbreak:
when we have a bitter break-up, to fill that emotional emptiness, we get head-on into wrong relationships. So, if you marry in your 30’s, you are getting enough time to tide over the painful break-up and start things again. So that you don’t keep comparing your husband to your first love.
You can have fun before falling into marriage commitment
If you marry in 30, you will get enough chance to have fun around with friends. So, there will be no regret that you wasted the golden days of your life.
You know your true worth and standard when you are 30:
You have a clear view of yourself in your mind. You know your self-worth and what kind of a person you may deserve, so you are less likely to make a wrong decision.